The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints’ Post

In an increasingly divided world, it is important to learn how to show love and empathy while maintaining our personal convictions. Here are some simple tips to help you maintain good relationships while also honoring your personal values: 1. Seek to understand. Your loved ones and associates probably already know your opinions. If they have confided in you, it is a sign that they value your relationship. You can reciprocate by listening to them, respecting them, and seeking to understand their experiences. 2. Find common ground. Even the most different people can find something to agree on. Finding these commonalities can nurture relationships that could otherwise be damaged by conflicting viewpoints. 3. Freely apologize. In emotional situations, we all might make mistakes. Holding grudges or refusing to admit wrongdoing can contribute to division. 4. Love like the Savior. Know that it’s OK to have differences of opinion. Forgive others and yourself when someone says the wrong thing. As you do, you will be filled with love. 5. Show empathy. Avoid stepping back from the relationship unless the situation has become unsafe. Show that your acceptance of an individual person is not conditional on others’ choices. 6. Love others and honor your values. The Savior taught that the two great commandments are to love God, and second, to love our neighbor. As we continue to show our love to God through our obedience to His commandments, He can empower us to show love to others along the way. What tips do you have about showing empathy and understanding to others? #empathy #commonground #personalvalues

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Annie Berbert

Marketing Content Writer

2y

The challenge here is that the theology’s principles and values teach that acceptance of an individual is conditional on one’s choices. Systemically, those who don’t obey are excluded from various forms of worship and participation, which is the definition of conditional acceptance—and this bleeds into how individuals treat one another in interpersonal settings. How do you hold firm to your values and empathize with those who have different values when your values exact condemnation and exclusion of another person’s way of being? This type of rhetoric promotes cognitive empathy but still has much work to do when it comes to compassionate and emotional forms of empathy.

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Rui Reid

Former Records Officer with NSW Police Service. Hospitality, Customer Service, and Telecommunications are the areas of my experience.

2y

Thanks for sharing daughter! Love it. Great words of wisdom!

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Don Spafford

Partner/Investor Relations

2y

Point number 3 has been a very important one to keep a marriage and other relationships strong. It is far too easy for people to just give up and get a divorce or break ties rather than work things out. And of course, following numbers 4 and 6 are what makes everything else in life work out.

Justin Riggs

Senior-Level Technical Resource and Master Educator | Persistent Problem Solver | Loves Good Music, Good Company, and Helping Others Maximize Their Productivity Through the Proper Use of Technology

2y

Good advice. I think there’s some work to be done in terms of the leadership of the church modeling these behaviors for the members. Especially regarding apologizing. I can’t remember a time a local or general leader apologized to the body of the church for a mistake they made.

Jacob Ritter

Mason County Public Health

2y

Empathy seems to become ever more rare these days. You don't have to agree with someone, but trying to understand them will conquer many obstacles.

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Laura Kinmont

M.Ed Montessori Guide ages 3-6, 6-9

2y

Everyone wants to feel loved and understood. Well written article.

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Apologizing makes humility come to the surface...

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Teri Florio

Contract Administrator at James E. Roberts-Obayashi Corp.

2y

Thank you for the reminder.

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