Michael Alder’s Post

Stress is kind of like a slow drip filling a bucket — you know it's there, but you might not pay it attention until it overflows. The key to dealing with stress is to recognize it early before it compounds. As a trial lawyer, it's something I've had to learn and practice over the past 20+ years. For me, a typical day starts with a long to-do list. Initially, I feel fine, but by lunchtime, I notice my shoulders are tense. I often ignore it, thinking it's just physical, not stress. As the day goes on, my mood shifts. I'm getting irritable over small things, but I don't connect this to stress. By evening, my mind is racing with worries about unfinished tasks. The stress has built up so much that I feel overwhelmed. I could have 'headed off stress at the pass' by recognizing these early signs. If I had taken a short break when I first felt tension in my shoulders or acknowledged my mood change, I might have prevented the stress from building up. Here are some of the things I've started doing to deal with stress before it accumulates, and some things you can try, too: 1.) Listen to Your Body: Often, your body knows stress is building before your mind does. Are your shoulders tight? Is your stomach in knots? These can be early signs. 2.) Check Your Mood: Are you suddenly irritable or anxious? Mood changes can be a clear signal that stress is increasing. 3.) Monitor Your Thoughts: Negative or worrying thoughts can be a symptom of mounting stress. 4.) Take Regular Breaks: Even a five-minute break can help. Step away from your work, take a walk, or do some stretching. 5.) Practice Mindfulness: This means being aware of the present moment. Mindful breathing or meditation can help calm your mind. 6.) Set Realistic Goals: Don't overload yourself. Prioritize your tasks and understand that it's okay not to finish everything in one day. By tuning into early signs of stress, you can take steps to manage it before it becomes overwhelming. Remember, it's easier to stop stress from building up than to deal with it once it's already high. #life #habits #personalgrowth #routines #stress