Harsh truth. You can: Memorize confidence hacks Practice in front of mirrors Copy your coworkers' style But if you aren't: Finding your governing thought Understanding the power of three Separating ideas before combining them You won't become a strong communicator. You don't need more confidence to develop your Executive Communication skills; you just need to 𝗢𝗥𝗚𝗔𝗡𝗜𝗭𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗧𝗛𝗢𝗨𝗚𝗛𝗧𝗦 (and if you do need more confidence it still starts with organizing your thoughts; you have value to add) 𝗪𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝘂𝗽 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 😅 Here's what I've discovered after coaching leaders and executives: 1. Clarity comes from separation, not organization When you try to organize everything at once, you create mental blocks. Start by separating your thoughts like you'd separate laundry: by type and color. → Instead of forcing all project updates into one message, separate them first: status, challenges, needs, next steps. Then connect them. 2. Resistance to structure is often fear in disguise We avoid organizing our thoughts because we're afraid of what we might find. Messy minds try to hide our fears. → "I need to share project delays" becomes "I'm afraid they'll question my leadership" becomes "Here's our current situation and solution" 3. Your first thought isn't your best thought - and it's rarely your governing thought Your governing thought is the one that actually needs to be communicated, and it often sits quietly behind the noise, waiting to be discovered. → Instead of sharing three slides of background context, lead with your core message: "We need to pivot our strategy" versus "Here's everything that led to this decision" We get so caught up in learning HOW to speak that we forget we actually need to organize WHAT we're saying. Nail down thought organization and repeat every day. That's how you find your voice. #aLITTLEadvice -- Hi, I'm April, a certified Executive Coach and former executive. I've helped hundreds of professionals land new positions and promotions. The Executive Material Program starts January 2025 - a 4-month women's coaching program blending executive communication and strategy to break through to executive roles. Join the waitlist for early bird pricing: https://lnkd.in/g99gspix
You’ve captured something so essential here. We’re often taught that confidence is the key to great communication, but without clarity of thought, confidence can only take us so far April Little
Yes to all of this!! Hacks and strategies are best SUSTAINED with one that has practiced organizing thoughts! I would add to practice feeling safe and practice feeling powerful. Our body is what leads our thoughts and actions.
"Messy minds try to hide our fears." - indeed, April! There is a difference between complex and complicated. Most things in life are complex, but when we don't like the truth that unfolds before us, we like to make it complicated so we don't have to deal with it.
Founder & CEO of LinkedSuperPowers Group | PR & Personal Branding Strategist | 5M+ Engaged Followers
10moThis is a powerful reminder that true communication strength lies in clarity and thought organization. By separating and structuring our ideas, we can convey our core messages more effectively. It's not just about speaking well, but about ensuring our message is clear and impactful. Thank you for sharing these insights, April.